There are countless ways for women to dress, including dressing sexy and going out. I can choose
between tight leggings or a short skirt or dress almost at will. I can choose between tight leggings or
a short skirt or dress, perhaps a chic top, sometimes belly-baring or backless, different bras… and if I
feel like it, stockings or suspenders, I can choose between high heels or boots, or perhaps a matching
sneaker… And everything is finely adjustable in terms of eroticism via the length of the skirt or the
height of the heels…

Men have a much harder time of it, which I think is a shame, but if a man tries to dress a little sexily
attractive for a woman, he has very few options. Of course, a well-fitting suit and elegant shoes
always work, but that’s where it ends… No one would take offense if a woman wore tight patent
leggings… a man in any cut of patent trousers is already looked at strangely…

And if he then also wants to experiment with shoes, it drifts a little into certain categories, which I
really regret…
Especially when you add in the, if I may say so, rather cheap sex shop merchandise for men, it
becomes rather embarrassing outside a swingers club at the latest.
I like to think back to the days of the Love Parade in Berlin, when there was chic fashion for men that
was unusual and stood out from other styles without looking cheap. Luckily, my husband has
retained this style to this day and so I can enjoy the odd sexy outfit on him without it being
embarrassing in public… His platform boots in particular are a chic style element that he likes to wear
and don’t look as boring as the gray masses usually do.
Men, feel free in your choice of clothing!!!